I think that our opinions pale in significance compared to your own testing. Keep trying different clubs until you find the one. Having said that, I think the Tour Exotics is a great head. You just need to find a better (higher launch) shaft for it. I think the Graffaloy Proto CompNT 65g stiff (maybe tipped 1/2 inch) would work great with that 9-deg. head and your swing. Check out this great review by one of our most senior members.
Tour Edge Exotics Driver - the new hammer