Vet,
I'm no pro, but i did take alot of lessons from one. And, i did practice alot of what I learned.
When i first started my lessons, i only used a 7 iron. Plain and simple. If you learn to hit a 7 iron 140, you're in great shape. 140+140+140=420, which is an average par 4. One putt and you're gold, two putts and you're playing bogey golf, which ain't bad.
My grandfather never did hit a driver. He hit 3 wood for years and years until he was 65, then we bought him a "Deuce" from Callaway. It's basically a strong 3 wood, but isn't quite a driver in terms of loft. He loves it, and hammers it as well.
The worst thing you can do at this point, and I know from experience, is get frustrated. Save that for later. There's plenty of time to get ticked off at yourself in the future. For now, take golf at face value, and have fun with it. Sometimes, when my game goes on vacation, i go to the range with the intention of hitting good, solid shots, but being inventive and making it fun. I say to myself "you know, i'm just gonna grab a wedge and lob some balls near that 50 yard marker, see if i can hit it." Now, i can hit a wedge 135, but just flipping them out there makes me think, but keeps me from fundamentals like straight left arm, hips through, head quiet, strong hands, ect. I just get those balls and flip them out. Make it sort of a game.
On a tangent, the course i was at today had a hockey net set up on the range as part of a fundraiser. They gave you three balls and if you hit the net, either on top or put one in, you got a sleeve of balls for a $5 donation. The tournament hadn't started, so i took a few go's. And, wouldn't you know it, i found myself sticking my wedges all over that net, without thinking of keeping my backswing level, finishing high, not pulling it, making sure the divot was right, ect. Moral of the story is, golf is easy if you make it easy. And by that i mean that getting frustrated makes it harder to clear your head and keep positive. I'm always the guy that says "Nice shot" to my playing partners, even if they come up 5 yards short of the green. They might be disappointed, but keeping a positive mind frame for the next chip is key.
Keep that chin up. That's the best advice anyone can give you when you're taking lessons and learning a new swing.
Now, take that 7 iron and get out there. When you start to complain how boring it is hitting just 7 irons, i'll tell you about the 8 days i had of hitting on the range and playing all my rounds with only my 7 iron and a putter. Now THAT'S boring!
R35