| From what you have said, I take it that you have one more year left in college. After that year is over, you plan on working at a golf course for two years, work on your game, hopefully get your handicap to a four, then become a club pro at a course.
If you have worked your way through college, your father has no financial leverage from which to speak, but he is your father. Out of respect, we at least listen to our fathers (and mothers!). It does not mean that we will blindly follow them, but they have known us from the beginning, and sometimes know us better than we know ourselves. They have been through things that we have yet to go through, and they can make very good guides for us at decision times if we can be wiser than our years and overcome the communication barriers that invariably grow up between parents and their kids as the kids get closer and closer to becoming adults.
There is nothing wrong with being a club pro. There is nothing wrong with any job that a person has in which they go out and honestly make a living doing something productive and legal. There is honor in work and that includes being a club pro. I expect your father may have had higher expectations for you after you got out of college. He may find something questionable about how you plan to spend your first two years out of college. He may have questions about how much you have received in the way of education from the college time you already have had. He may wish that you had a little more drive. He may wish that your sights were set somewhat higher. He is probably like a lot of parents who want their kids to have more than what they had, and he feels that your chosen path will lead to less which means less for not just you, but your wife and kids. He may know of some club pros that are pretty much dead end jobs when it comes to pay and opportunities. He may have seen that some club pros who have done pretty well have had connections, family and otherwise, that explain their well-being more than the income derived from being a club pro.
Golf is obviously becoming more popular than ever before. It is scary how many courses are being built. There are even anti-golf organizations popping up in the world that believe that all that effort should be put into raising food for the world's poor, etc, etc, etc. So there will be golf jobs available. But all courses are not prospering, and there are many courses up for sale at the present time. They are businesses and in their concern for costs, they do not pay out a whole lot of money, especially to assistant pros. Often these assistants do far more work than the head pro, but that is just the way it is with most jobs. The best way to become number one is to be the very best number two. The best way to be the best number two is to be best at making number one look good. Again, the head pro often has connections, and if you try to stab him in the back, that would probably cost you rather than him.
Your handicap does not necessarily mean how good of an instructor you will be. Some golfers go to instructors who are good players and not good instructors and feel cheated. Head pros often charge more for lessons than the assistants can, but they are not necessarily the best instructors. They lack enthusiasm. Any teacher who has no enthusiasm will not be very good. Develop your own game, but gain as much knowledge about the swing and how to teach as you can. An assistant pro who does not get much instruction time is going to have a rough go of it financially.
Learn the rules of golf to the point that you are a true expert!!! Work on getting all the PGA certification which is usually required to be a pro at a lot of better courses. There is money to be made being officials at golf tournaments. If you are truly an expert at the rules and can make really high marks on the rules tests that are given periodically, you might end up serving as a rules official at professional tournaments. These guys make pretty good money at times for their services.
Make certain that you are a people person as you go down this road. Get good at things that operating business requires because someday a big hunk of your income may come from what the pro-shop brings in.
A lot of people want to work at a golf course because they like to play golf. Assistant pros play far less golf than most people think. Some go sort of crazy being right there at the course, but unable to go out and play it. It seems to me that insurance sales people play more than golf course employees.
Lots to think about with career decisions. Talk to assistant pros and try to find out how they really feel about their jobs, both positive and negative. The best of luck to you with this big, big decision. Sincerely, Cypressperch |