Ah, the Christmas spirit!
Seriously think about it, a lot of people buy gifts for people they see once a year or they buy gifts for people they don't even like. It's almost as if they feel compelled & it's the "right thing to do", screw that nonsense. I bet if most people had the opportunity they would chose entirely different family members than they have. Just because you were born into a family doesn't mean you automatically need to like all of them.
Have only seen my brother once in the 13 years since my moms death & i'm fine with that. Been 26 years since I saw my father, for all I know he could be dead. Sure as hell won't waste my time buying either of them any christmas junk.
Sounds kinda cheesy but Linus got it right in Charlie Browns Christmas movie. Everything is way too commercial, buy this, buy that, buy it now, put it on credit, just get it now, don't be late.
When I grow up I want to be a combination of Scrooge & the Grinch.