I'm sure most of us, if not all, have met the wall of fire. You just have to get through it man, and you will be much better for having done so. And if there are any here who have not fought through the fire they are either lucky or are about to do it. I feel so much stronger after working through problems because now I am armed with the ability to recognize and change a fault. I just went through one this month and am actually glad it happened. It is the old "learn more from my losses" thing I guess. That is the way I view these things anyway.